State Rep. Nguyen spoke about the cultural barriers to finding solutions to domestic violence, as women from many other countries have a different understanding of the issue — believing they are only victims if they need to be hospitalized, for example — or are resistant to “airing your dirty laundry” in public. As a result, many women who are abused never seek help.
But even when they do, Nguyen explained, they are too often met by indifference. Her own state legislator before she ran for office, a man, couldn’t be bothered to inform himself about the issues facing women.
“It’s so important for us to work together, to build a pipeline, to get more women in elected office,” Nguyen said.
Viñuela also touched on the subject of cultural norms, describing how patriarchy has so infused her home country of Spain, many people couldn’t truly fathom that five men in one high-profile criminal case could be guilty of sexually assaulting an 18-year-old woman.
“The only way to prevent violence against women is to create gender equality,” Viñuela said, adding that the cultural shift must start early. “It’s a process where you have to support and go hand-in-hand with the teenagers and everybody. You help them.”
Taher underscored another dramatic example of cultural and religious norms fueling violence against women: female genital cutting, which is practiced in at least 92 countries, including the United States, despite laws barring the practice. And the pandemic has inflamed the crisis since, in the middle of the lockdowns, women have found no refuge, especially when social services are scarce.
Breceda shared her experiences and the U.S.-Mexico border during the years of the Trump Administration, indicating that migrant women on either side of the line were often denied medical care, even after giving birth to a child.
Even well inside the United States, the situation facing women can be treacherous.
Beady raised the alert about the COVID “tsunami” and its effect on women in the Mississippi Delta, where she’s from. In terms of poverty, malnutrition, substandard schools and other issues particularly oppressive to women and children, she said Mississippi is often labeled “the first of the worst.”
Nevertheless, service organizations, churches and individuals are making a difference.
“COVID is not stronger than hope and love,” she said.
Still, two poems read by Valentìn, who graduated in 2020 with a dual degree in secondary education and English literature, underscored the fear and anger women experience because of unwanted attention, intimidation, overt disrespect and the threat of violence.
“He watches me / And I think he likes that I am scared,” Valentìn read from her poem “Too Busy to Hear Me.”